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September 2010
Life and My Many Lessons (A Spoken Word)
My story is to be shared with women.
Failure is another word for practice.
Being wasteful is foolish. A lack of
money has taught me to rely and
depend on God. I realize now that he is
my true source. As long as I obey him
no matter how hard it gets, he will
never leave or forsake (me or you.)
Through pain God has taught me that
vengeance is His. Through sorrow, I
have learned that He is a comfort and
healer.
Waiting on God is a long lesson. He
works in His timing. And he doesn’t
come when you think he should, but he
is always on time. (Never late)
Through disappointments, I have
learned that I am either being
protected from harm or something
better is on the way.
I have learned that family members
aren’t chosen and if I could choose, I
probably wouldn’t choose some of
them. But, I love them and will
continue to pray that God deal with
them in areas, needed. My church and
Bishop has taught me the definition of
Faith, Love and growing in Christ.
Relationships have taught me that I will
never really know a person. I may
understand some of their
characteristics or personality, but they
will always do something to disappoint
me most times unintentionally.
What has your experiences taught you?
July 2010
Stronger W/Each Tear
Have you ever heard the saying, when there is an increase in one area of your life, there is decrease in the other? Well, I have experienced it more than once! Last week, I remember walking back to my seat after delivering a wonderful graduation speech feeling like I just won the Noble Peace Prize. The feeling I felt was unexplainable. But this week, I have been sinking in sinking sand. My emotions have been all over the place about everything in my life. While on the ride home to and from Charleston SC, I was able to listen to my favorite songstress; Mrs. Mary J. Blige. Sometimes, when I feel like Life and Emotions are trying to take control or I have NO control, I pop in one of her CD's and have my own private concert.
It took a while for her new album to grow on me. But when I finally listened to the CD, the song that became nearest and dearest to my heart is the song entitled: Each Tear.
That metaphor sends chills through my body. Do you know how strong I try to be and not just break down and let the tears flow? Do you know how many tears I have had over the course of my life? I don't either, but the analogy fits perfectly with pain. If you listen to the song, you will see that the concept fits perfectly with the pain we all feel when we are going through something. With each tear, there is a lesson...so learn from them and dry your eyes...
So as of July 6, 2010, Each Tear will be the "Experiences" anthem. Anytime you click on this page (or until I move into the next plateau of my life) this is the song you will hear. (TNG)
If you want to sing along.....
In each tear,
there's a lesson.
Makes you wiser than before
Makes you stronger than you know
In each tear,
Brings you closer to your dream
No mistake --no heartbreak--can take away what you're meant to be.
May 2010 - Let’s see what happens next...
So, I have been ranting and raving about The Law of Attraction like its Starbucks coffee. When the knowledge was placed into my possession, I had one or two options: (1) figure out how to apply it to my life; or (2) allow it to collect dust. I chose option number 1 of course. I must admit that when I first learned about it, I wanted to share it with the world, but I wasn't consistently utilizing the principles. I received the audio version of Rhonda Byrne's "The Secret" and I must listen to it at least twice a month to keep the information fresh in my mind. I carry it around in my purse; everywhere I go…YES it’s that serious. My Bishop said it best; information not practiced or rehearsed is soon forgotten. So, the more I listen to it, the more I apply it to my situation and my "thoughts." "I am a straight million dollar chic;" I wrote it in one of my songs and I keep that thought in rotation in my mind. I have certain thoughts and affirmations programmed in my mind like the songs in rotation on the radio. PAUSE/TIME-OUT
Questions to Ponder
Do you know that because you are reading this, you are being empowered and enriched to obtain the things that you want for your life? Do you know that you can co-create your life? Do you know that the visions in your mind can become physical or tangible? Did you know that some people are capitalizing on this free, priceless knowledge? Do you know that I can answer each of these questions with one three letter word?
Now, back to the experience. Mothers Day is in a few days and while doing some shopping at the Hallmark Store, I ran across some really great cards and trinkets/gift ideas for the special mothers in my life. Chace and Chad (my two sons) are with me and start to become restless. I can stay in this store, office supply stores, and Target ALL day! SO, I approach the checkout counter, and there it is: One Million Dollars! Now wait...I must add that when
I would hear athletes say that the game is more mental than physical, I was thinking that trash talking and getting in their opponents head was solely what they meant. But it's not. Most of the games are won by the players who know and understand without a shadow of a doubt that they are going to win. The fact that One Million dollars had tracked me down and found me was absolutely amazing. Please understand that whatever you think about, becomes your life. It will attract itself to you. So I purchased that Million Dollars (for only a dollar) and pasted it to my vision board. Understand that there is joy, peace, and hope in believing that you have what you ask for. Let’s see what happens next...TNG
The Bank of the Universe I would hear athletes say that the game is more mental than physical, I was thinking that trash talking and getting in their opponents head was solely what they meant. But it's not. Most of the games are won by the players who know and understand without a shadow of a doubt that they are going to win. The fact that One Million dollars had tracked me down and found me was absolutely amazing. Please understand that whatever you think about, becomes your life. It will attract itself to you. So I purchased that Million Dollars (for only a dollar) and pasted it to my vision board. Understand that there is joy, peace, and hope in believing that you have what you ask for. Let’s see what happens next...TNG 
The Bank of the Universe is open and with the universal check, you can visualize the unlimited abundance that is yours for the asking. Print the check, fill in your name and the amount you wish to receive in your chosen currency, then sign and date it. Place the check in a prominent position where you will see it every day! Every time you look at your check, believe and feel that you have the money now!
Print out as many checks as you would like. Write some to your creditors (PNF-->Paid In Full), write some to car dealerships for your dream car, write one to your church to give a huge offering, or write some to your family members to assist them in get
ting out of debt. Now visualize that you are actually doing each in your mind until the thoughts manifest.
In respect and regards to Mothers all across the world, Corporate Chics would like to wish you a Happy Mothers Day. I remember when I was in college and couldn't afford a gift, I did the only thing I know how to do and that was write. My mother acted as if that was the best gift, I could have given her! So if you have nothing to give, give love by using your talents. The letter is written below.
Moma,
I just wanted to take the time to let you know that I love you so much. I now see the life that you saw for me. It may not be exactly the way you wanted but I see the woman that you are. You are a beautiful, caring, sweet-hearted, virtuous woman! And I want to be just like You. Something really shines through you ~ to get through to others. And that's how I want to be: A praying God-fearing woman of God. Anyone that you've met has felt your love shine on them. In God's eye, I know you are a SuperStar! And I love you for staying by my side through everything.
Me....
Also, I want to send love to our troops. We celebrate Memorial Day for all
the wrong reasons. This day is supposed to be observed for the fallen soldiers who placed everything on the line for America. Instead of partying it up on in DR or South Beach, take some time to reflect on the true meaning of this holiday as well. For more public awareness initiatives, visit Sisters Striving for Excellence.
the wrong reasons. This day is supposed to be observed for the fallen soldiers who placed everything on the line for America. Instead of partying it up on in DR or South Beach, take some time to reflect on the true meaning of this holiday as well. For more public awareness initiatives, visit Sisters Striving for Excellence.April 2010
Can you say Busy?
For the past 30 days I have been experiencing a shift in my life. I haven't been able to write or blog so there is a lot that is built up that will come out in this "Experience" post. First, I want to begin by saying that I am excited about the NY book tour that I have been preparing for, along with the production of the short film, "The Diary of the Girl who Committed Suicide." This piece is an inspiration that derived from Corporate Chics, the novel.
This month has been very challenging for me. I know that I am moving into the next realm of entrepreneurship and business and I have been tested in everyway imaginable. Business is more than just mere talent. How do I know? Well, because when you start to ask questions and the answer is revealed to you through various ways, especially in the spiritual dimension, then you know you are in touch with something far greater than you can fathom. You are much bigger on the inside than what you see when you look in the mirror.
I see with my Spirit eyes now, and although I don't catch everything, I am able to discern and view certain instances and situations based on truth. One thing about the truth is, either it is or it ain't. I am far from perfect and don't know it all, but I am connected to an Energy that is...so therefore if I continue to strive to be a Woman of Integrity, I will get as close to it as I can.
I learned many lessons this month. The Biggest-->I now know that I must step back and evaluate a situation and realize that I must take ownership when I know I am the reason for something not flowing as it should. Grass doesn't strain to grow. It just does. And being that I am a spirit connected to a much bigger spirit, than everything should flow without any worries. BUT when I start to act on a situation that is NOT led or guided by my Maker, I run into problems. When I evaluate me and take everything and everybody out of the equation as to why something isn't going as planned, I find my answer. And yes, most times it’s me getting in the way.
Through my experiences, I have been learning sooooooo much! I wouldn't qualify to assist others in certain areas if I didn't. Start examining you today. Look at yourself from the inside out. If you are saying,”I don't need to, I am fine," you are in denial of self love. Because when you love yourself unconditionally, you do what you can to better YOU. If you look at yourself and see perfection, your problem is denial. When you are in denial and can't take ownership for you, you have a far bigger problem than you know. We are not perfect and fall short daily. But because I can't judge and should only lead by being a Great example, I will.
This month has been very challenging for me. I know that I am moving into the next realm of entrepreneurship and business and I have been tested in everyway imaginable. Business is more than just mere talent. How do I know? Well, because when you start to ask questions and the answer is revealed to you through various ways, especially in the spiritual dimension, then you know you are in touch with something far greater than you can fathom. You are much bigger on the inside than what you see when you look in the mirror.
I see with my Spirit eyes now, and although I don't catch everything, I am able to discern and view certain instances and situations based on truth. One thing about the truth is, either it is or it ain't. I am far from perfect and don't know it all, but I am connected to an Energy that is...so therefore if I continue to strive to be a Woman of Integrity, I will get as close to it as I can.
I learned many lessons this month. The Biggest-->I now know that I must step back and evaluate a situation and realize that I must take ownership when I know I am the reason for something not flowing as it should. Grass doesn't strain to grow. It just does. And being that I am a spirit connected to a much bigger spirit, than everything should flow without any worries. BUT when I start to act on a situation that is NOT led or guided by my Maker, I run into problems. When I evaluate me and take everything and everybody out of the equation as to why something isn't going as planned, I find my answer. And yes, most times it’s me getting in the way.
Through my experiences, I have been learning sooooooo much! I wouldn't qualify to assist others in certain areas if I didn't. Start examining you today. Look at yourself from the inside out. If you are saying,”I don't need to, I am fine," you are in denial of self love. Because when you love yourself unconditionally, you do what you can to better YOU. If you look at yourself and see perfection, your problem is denial. When you are in denial and can't take ownership for you, you have a far bigger problem than you know. We are not perfect and fall short daily. But because I can't judge and should only lead by being a Great example, I will.
March 2010
Death is only a Continuation...
Many people fear or worry about death. But reality is that--> it is going to happen; eventually. This is why it is so important to choose life and not death. Life is everlasting, death is temporary. It's that simple. The temptations and ugly habits are what cause death. Striving to be right and live with intergrity, is life. Everything that you see and experience is only preparing you for what's to come. Our body is made of a spirit. Your spirit is really who you are. Your spirit must be nurtured daily with positivity and the things of God.
I don't know if people really grasp that life is really a continuation. Because God is so just, he allows us to choose how we will live life on earth and thereafter. Of course being the most popular, or having an abundance of money, or even being propserous in every area of life is on many people's to-do list. But when all is said and done, who's approval do you really want? Worrying about who has this or that isn't going to help you exercise the friut of the spirit, which is Love. Driving a Bentley Coup is cool for now, but what about the heavenly rewards that we are promised if we just obey and follow the road less traveled. That Coup probably is like a pinto in Heaven!
I was prompted to write on this subject because of the many devastations that are happening. Earthquakes and snow in March (for the southerners) is definitely a sign and hint to get it together before it's too late. If you are reading this, don't you know that because God loves you so much, that you have another opportuity to get it right. YOU could have been amongst the many people who died in natural disasters. Unknowingly, you could have attracted death via murder, a car accident, through a drug, because of health problems, or any other causes that result in death. Choose life. Because it goes on, and on, and on, and on, and on. It's FOREVER. It never Stops. The choice is yours. God gives hints all the time to pass the tests that seem so challenging. Get your mind right. He loves you and wants you to know that death is the begnning of life.
(TNG)
February 2010
February has two very essential subjects that are emphasized: Black History Month & Love. Black history Month has been apart of my life ever since I could read and write. My parents always taught the importance of learning "our" history and why it was vital to my growth as an African American Female. Below is a link that provides ALL of our history. Many people believe that our history involves specifically how we were traded into slavery and the strides we made as a culture since then, however, the neglect all the positive occurrences we made. There are some inventions that many don't know about. Another one of my vices involve everyone discussing Harriet Tubman, Malcolm X, MLK Jr., Frederick Douglas, Sojourner Truth, and Booker T. Washington. As an adolescence, I can only recall learning about the leaders of the 1900s. True, they are and will always remain significant; however, there are many others that we must gain knowledge of and educate others about. There are certain things we wouldn't have been able to do if it had not been for some of my ancestors. We cover an array of industries! There were African American Inventors, Scientists, Lawyers, and Doctors. We have way more talents then the suggested-->Entertainment. Explore your heritage....
Love. OMG, that word is the epitome and essence or our being. Nothing else really matters in life if one does not possess this fruit. Our Maker and Universe is the source of Love and we shouldn't celebrate it only on February 14. Love should be expressed every second, every minute, every hour, and every day our lives. Love encompasses the fruit of the spirit: {faithfulness, gentleness, goodness, joy, peace, temperance/self-control, long-suffering/patience, and meekness} The adjectives listed prior, all make up the four letter word. Daily we must become aware of it and infectiously spread it.
January 2010
This month, I have decided to participate in a cleansing of the body, soul, and mind. It's called The 42 Day and 40 Day Miracle Program. I am about to embark on a six week journey. I have never done something like this, however, I understand that if I want to work on commitment issues or consistently in walking in my purpose; completing an experience that I have never encountered will expose and prepare me for the abundance and success that I am soon to create. I will document my EXPERIENCE biweekly. Are you up for the challenge? (TNG)
Week 1
Week 5: 4 more days
The 40 Day Miracle involves abstaining from or counteracting the 7 deadly sins for a period of 40 days. These 7 sins have long been recognized by the church as the 7 basic human behaviors and emotions that cause most of our destruction and spiritual downfall.
The Daily Proclamation sums up The 40 Day Miracle.
40 is the Biblical number of major change and preparation for destiny.
● To prepare for the new world it rained for 40 days and 40 nights
● After the rain stopped, Noah waited 40 days to open the Ark window
● Embalming required 40 days
● Moses stayed on the mountain 40 days (TWICE);
his face shone afterwards
● The spies spent 40 days searching out the Promised Land
● Israelites spent 40 years in the wilderness before the Promised Land
● Goliath challenged for 40 days before being killed by David
● Elijah strengthened by one angelic meal went 40 days to Mt. Horeb
● Jonah warned Nineveh they had 40 days till God overthrew the city
● Jesus fasted and was tempted 40 days in the wilderness
● Jesus was seen in the earth 40 days after His crucifixion
Often when God wanted to prepare someone for a truly great destiny, He took 40 days and sent them through an experience somewhat unpleasant to the flesh.The Daily Proclamation sums up The 40 Day Miracle.
40 is the Biblical number of major change and preparation for destiny.
● To prepare for the new world it rained for 40 days and 40 nights
● After the rain stopped, Noah waited 40 days to open the Ark window
● Embalming required 40 days
● Moses stayed on the mountain 40 days (TWICE);
his face shone afterwards
● The spies spent 40 days searching out the Promised Land
● Israelites spent 40 years in the wilderness before the Promised Land
● Goliath challenged for 40 days before being killed by David
● Elijah strengthened by one angelic meal went 40 days to Mt. Horeb
● Jonah warned Nineveh they had 40 days till God overthrew the city
● Jesus fasted and was tempted 40 days in the wilderness
● Jesus was seen in the earth 40 days after His crucifixion
We all deal with the 7 deadly sins but rarely is there an organized program to specifically give us the power to conquer them and take our lives to a new level. If we examine our lives closely, we will see that virtually all of our misery and unhappiness results from one or more of these 7 deadly sins. If you don't think so, then listen to the seven messages and you will see how they are involved in our pain.
When you can conquer something for 40 days, you will have the power and the knowledge to conquer it forever.
After you read over The 40 Day Miracle and Discover what it is and Decide that you want to Do this, you must listen to the audio messages concerning the seven areas and the specifics of each. The audio messages are free as is The 40 Day Miracle. More accurately, we don't charge you anything. You must pay the price of disciplining yourself.
